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THAT is OCD
When people ask me why I am on this journey, I often say to encourage, educate and make change. Educating has been a huge part of my...
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Aug 2, 20233 min read


The End of a Decade!
Today I leave my thirties and enter my forties. It’s exciting, that’s for sure, especially for a numbers person like me, but I thought I...
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Jul 26, 20232 min read


"Once begun is half done..."
You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step. Martin Luther King, Jr. I'm not going to lie, the last week has been...
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Jul 9, 20232 min read


Sometimes you just can't.
Wow, it is so much harder to ask for help than it is to give help! For almost a year, I have been writing, reading, drawing, researching,...
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Jul 5, 20233 min read


Big Girls Don't Cry...Wait, What?! Yes They Do!
It can be quite confusing When your aunt has a mental illness She might be loud and crazy Or overwhelmed by the stillness Sometimes when...
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Jul 3, 20231 min read


Thank you for being a friend <3
“A friend is someone who helps you up when you’re down, and if they can’t, they lay down beside you and listen,” ~Winnie the Pooh (A.A....
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Jun 25, 20235 min read


"Any man can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a dad."
**Warning: It has been 28 years since my dad died, and some days my grief is still raw. If you have recently lost someone you love,...
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Jun 18, 20231 min read


Progress is not Linear
Sometimes I forget that progress is not linear. I think that once I take a few steps forward I have moved out of the darkness and will...
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Jun 11, 20233 min read


Celebrate the Good Times...And the Not So Good
Life shouldn’t just Be lived… It should be Celebrated -Osho The last twenty years have been a pretty much constant roller coaster – up...
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Jun 5, 20232 min read


And So It Begins...
Some how, I’m still alive. There have been so many times, more than I can even count, that I wanted to die. That I wanted to give up. ...
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May 28, 20231 min read


I've Got the Music In Me
When I did ECT my memories were erased Everything was new, each situation I faced But then, over time, they started to come back I...
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May 27, 20232 min read


Not so perfect...
I went to school, learned something new And tried to follow every rule I studied my vocabulary Had some fun with Bob and Larry And so...
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May 20, 20232 min read


You'll Never Walk Alone
You’ll Never Walk Alone The first time I heard this song was on the Jerry Lewis Telethon. It was when I was very young, and I knew that...
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May 13, 20232 min read


Let me be brave in the attempt!
Let me win, But if I can't win, let me be brave in the attempt. Have you ever heard that Mantra? It's the message of Special Olympics. ...
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May 6, 20233 min read


Slimy Poem
Dirty things are rough for sure And exposure is the only cure But I don't want to touch what’s slimy It makes me feel all gross and grimy...
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Apr 29, 20231 min read


The end....or the beginning
A few days ago we went to my niece's first grade concert. It was absolutely darling, but the piano music was prerecorded and despite the...
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Apr 22, 20232 min read


Don't Stop Believin'
“Believe in yourself, take on your challenges, dig deep within yourself to conquer fears. Never let anyone bring you down. You got to...
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Apr 1, 20233 min read


Make Good Choices
For so much of my life I have lived by the mantra “Make Good Choices.” When I was in college one of my favorite hall directors used to...
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Mar 27, 20233 min read


To Be FREE of OCD
Have you ever started a medication with so much hope that it will make things better only to find that there are lots of side effects,...
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Mar 18, 20233 min read


Just Another Manic Monday
“I guess this is goodbye, old pal, You’ve been a perfect friend.” After a long depression, a mania can feel really good…at least to the...
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Mar 12, 20233 min read
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